Stillloveshim , I composed a letter and mailed it yesterday . I took 100% of blame for the breakdown of the marriage . Validated the fact that the marriage is over . Apologized for my part in the demise . I did not bring up the affair , the forgery , the dishonesty or anything she could view as blame or make her feel ashamed . Lets see what happens . I still feel she has checked out and this is all for not but since the divorce is going through anyway what do I have to lose .
Basically you just validated that she's doing the right thing in having an A it seems like.
I took blame for "my part" in my marriage breakdown, but ultimately it falls on my W for choosing not to work on the M.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
