Yesterday I dropped off D16 at STBX's house. There she was shoveling the front walk in a mink coat(!) while SmarmyLawyerBossScumBagParamour sat inside MY old house making phone calls for his job. What a guy! (I just heard his whiney voice on the phone as I dropped D16s bag in the inside hallway! Fortunately, I did not make face to face contact. I would have asked him how his wife was doin', and if I could shine his wedding ring for him!!!!!! LMAO!)