Wow Julia.. good for you, thats amazing !!! And I love that when you finally felt 'ok' and strong in yourself.. you could just dash off an email plainly stating what YOU need in terms of the finances and telling him you wish to shut that account (thats a great idea!) and letting him off your bills.
WOw though, I didnt realise he had been seeing ow since Oct 07, I thought it was after May 08, when he said he didnt want to try anymore. So he was having an A then?? And well done for taking his sis off FB !!! Thats brilliant.
Seriously, you seem to have leap frogged emotionally in the past couple of weeks, its brilliant, good for you. I am sure there are only good things on teh horizon for you. You said before about your list of things to do.. and you inspired me by the way! I didnt make a list, just sort of resolved to start doing things I had always wanted to do.. thats why I signed up for the Tang Soo do and teh sailing! So thankyou !!
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread