Hey K... wow, I just read both threads.. seems like you were detaching even back then! This bit, on your birthday last year was telling wasnt it
"He said he realised he needs to work on himself and that he has left these 3 months pass without doing much on himself and his personal problems. He said "she is already at 100 and I am still at 1" (progress)

He said the kids can wait one -or two more months until he comes back or decides and she told him that the kids should suffer only if this period is used for a good purpose: him to take care of his s$$t."

..OMG! He finally got started by a year later. Last year he called you 8 times and left you the silver shoes on the table (thats bad luck my Mum says! - shoes on the table). I wonder if you will hear from him this year?

Our stars today !!!....
You have a chance now to rebuild your love life, somehow. If you're one of the Pisceans who feels they've been oh-so-patient where your partner is concerned, it should be around about now that you start to sense your patience is paying off. If you're starting to wonder if your partner (or ex) is worth the effort, don't stop wondering. Be brutally honest with yourself! And if you feel like you're about to restructure your relationship so it includes more commitment? Guess what? You're probably right! Just keep doing what you do.

Love Al xxx