Can you point me back to some of your earlier threads please. I wanted to read up on your sitch before I commented.
My H bottles things up I know.....he reacts quite differently from me. I don't know if it's a male/female thing or just different personalities.
We have been lucky and not had anyone close to us die yet, so I don't know how either of us will react when that happens.
I think living a long way away from each other must be very hard. I don't know if my M would survive that over a prolonged period although some M's seem to actually thrive on it. My H and I have always been a coulple that get on better the more we see of each other.
My M is in a pretty good place thanks. I learnt a lot with everything we went through, and although we still have our backslides they have been pretty small so far. I think both of us realised that we needed to make changes for good. The way we interact has altered a great deal and we both seem a lot more considerate of on another. Lets hope it stays that way.
So are there job opportunities for your H where you are?
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
