I do have a soft heart for most everything else, but this situation.

Detaching is a form of protecting your heart.

It is survival in the MLC world.

Most standers though have the ability to soften their heart as the process nears the end.

I think the key is to be flexible when you feel more safe in your situation.

Does that make sense?

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11