Ok, first of all, how lame is your H?? He gets a big fat WHATEVER to that lowball offer. Sounds like you have the right attitude though. Stand up for yourself and S12 but let the lawyers duke it out. Grr. It does make me wonder how contentious my negotiations are going to get. Good thing I have a lot of wine in the house!
Second, I think you're doing the right thing for yourself taking the ring off. If that's what you feel then do it.
I know I'm biased here...I am so glad to hear your revelations about your M and what you want out of a R. Not because I want you to move on as I have decided to do, but because you have realized that you deserve better. Never say never as your H may wake up some day and realize what a huge mistake he has made. And at that point you will have to decide if he can provide you with the things you want and deserve out of life.
I think you have turned the corner that Silva and I turned and it is really good over here! I don't mean to speak for him, but I think he would agree that we have realized that life is short and we should not settle for anything that will make us less than truly happy. So welcome! Perhaps we should hit BK and Mickey D's to celebrate!
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
