Thanks you guys. I needed the lift. I agree. I know she is scared sh!tless. Who wouldn't be. Little does she know he is trying to find his ex-girlfriend. I think one of the things that hurts is that if he is looking to bail on her, why is he looking for his ex instead of coming home to me? I know I don't want him the way he is now...but, the idea that I'm NOT an option, sucks.
He's already tried to get back to you, IMHO, with all the sex talks and stuff, but your not going to take him as he is. You don't want THAT man, you want a real man. If he can't ever figure that out, and he may not, then you do not want what is left of him, because right now it is empty.
You've got so much more ahead of your life than he does, AND OW does. Believe that. There lives are heading for destruction. Sin leads to death. And there whole R is based on sin.
keep focusing on you. and maybe you should take him off as your friend, but that will probably cause some issue and drama if you do.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
