T2, Sounds like you are getting yourself together! Go girl! Working all day today... But I received a couple of books to read; "winning your H back before it's too late", "your M can survive MLC", "renew your M at mid-life", "wounded M can be healed; hope for the separated", "how to save your M alone". Has anyone read any of them? If so Are they good? Well, I'm going to find out! Deb