Trusting,
If I may suggest. Buns and Abs...yeah.

Heart of steel--no. I think you have a soft heart. Let it stay that way.

It's hard to be soft. That's when all the pain comes in. But keep it soft for yourself, and also for the next person you're involved with, H or not.

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D