I did say no to her about having the house to herself with or without the girls. I told her that it's just as much mine as it is her's. I held back from asking " If I say no, what are you gonna do - divorce me?" As I said, our talk didn't get much farther than that. I did tell her I was not leaving this house even if she serves me. I will buy her out. I don't think she realizes I only have to buy half the house. We're still supposed to see a mediator this Friday. I'm hoping she will then realize all the ramifications of a D.
