This may not apply to all women but I would guess it applies to almost all of them, especially the ones who have had a baby or two...
We don't like you to touch our stomach. Maybe if we are laying flat on our backs and haven't eaten lately and we feel skinny in that moment, well ok...but otherwise, if we are sitting, definitely do NOT touch our stomach. We are acutely aware that if we are bent over forward, as when we are sitting, there is a tummy roll there and we do not want you to touch it. No matter how many times you tell us that it "doesn't bother you" and you act like we are being silly, it DOES bother us and we don't like it.
Now, if your wife happens to have a perfectly flat tummy then she probably loves you to touch it. But likely, she doesn't and likely, she doesn't want you to touch it.
Especially annoying is when we are laying on our side and our man wants to spoon up behind us, but he puts his hand on our tummy. ACK! That will make me hop out of bed faster than fire! Instead he could put his hand all the way around her and grab her free hand with his. Or he could make sure his hand stays on her back, shoulder, thigh, hip or strokes her hair.
I am writing this in response to Burt saying how he was making moves by starting rubbing her stomach and then moving up to her breasts. Of course, this type of move in general isn't likely to work, but specifically, touching the stomach is usually going to make her retreat and feel insecure.
Sorry guys, I know it is like navigating a mine field....but trust me on this one!
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
Just for the record, I have never looked in these threads, and I'm dying of laughter my first time... (Sorry, Spellfire! Don't mean to laugh at you!) But, DQ... you could not be more true! That is hilarious, but REAL!
Spellfire, no stomach rubbing.
PS - You're the bomb for putting up such a supremo effort, though!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Thanks for the back up from the girls on this one....the guys, well, just take our word for it...pretend like we dont even HAVE a stomach, and we'll be much happier!
Great advice!, but boy you gals sure are complicated. Just for the record she was laying flat on her back and she is skinny, but note to all you women, I absolutely adore that little role when she sits and is bent over, it is very sexy to me.
Haha! My H did it last night in bed. He was behind me, spooning me and he put his hand on my "lower pooch." I smiled to myself and thought about all of you guys posting about how our flaws aren't a turn off to you, and I just let it be.
Yeah, it's fine, that is... until you call it a pooch! D;
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
