In the past I couldn't have agreed with you more BUT my kids choices are proving to cause me more harm financially than those of my H. Don't get me wrong I DO love them and alway will and I will always make sure they know that but I can no longer handle my children using themselves as weapons against me. It hurts too much physically and it threatens my very future. Without a future for me what chance do they have?
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
