Oh, one other thing I had to share, a very interesting story. So my friends into problems their marriage. H left their marriage not because of another woman, moved away to his home country and then meet OW. I am certain that he didn't leave b/c of OW, they had marital problems that he cowardly did not address with her. My friend, driven by ego and hurt and anger did not want to DB and just gave up on her marriage. She completely loved and hated him at the same time. Anyway, her H's male friend, who i've never meet but don't like for obvious reasons, decided that he would be there for her in the separation. My friend and this guy started a relationship. She filed for divorce from her H and has since been with this other guy. They also relocated to her H's country but a different part.
So, on Friday, a got a phone call from a strange number. I didn't know the number so I wasn't answering it. I was on another call anyway. I ended my call and then went on with my business. As I'm sitting there at the table, I hear a wisper calling Vicky, but there was no one around. I picked up my cwll phone and somehow the strange call was answered. It was my friend calling from overseas. She called to tell me not to give up on my H. Her H and my H and I were all friends so she knows my H well. She had told me that I need to move on from H and she wouldn't deal with it. The thing is OM is starting to show his true colors, the fantansy of their relationship is dying and they are arguing like crazy. She said she told him that she had never argued with her H that much in all the 16+ years they were together. I was laughing to myself. I don't think she will end the R with OM just yet but I hope soon. I kept telling her not to hastily D her H and to give it time and to understand his point of view and love hurts at times, but her ego couldn't take it. Now she so misses her H. She did say that she doesn't regret the D because of how H hurt her and I said that she had a right to be hurt b/c they were hurtful things done, but love is in spite of all that.
Anyway, I told what happened as a message God wanted me to hear b/c I so was not planning on taking that call.
