I didn't mean to ask for specifically 30 days, he was pressuring me to give him a more definite time table on our R. H doesn't quite get the concept of a separation. He says that he just wants to date for now. I gave him a lot to think about in the nicest way possible about our R. His response remained consistent - that was when I was drinking, I don't feel the same way anymore - I have learned a lot during our time apart about myself and I have a lot more to learn. I even see your wisdom in doing this now.
