Yes, I do get that all the time. He starts a fight about something or a discussion then it gets out of hand and when I get mad and start raising my vioce then he tells me that I am 'psycho' and 'look how you get when we argue'. I get so frustrated by that.
I try not to let him get to me. I have been able to master what you are talking about with my mom. She can be a handful at times when she has an opinion, wants to state it, wants everyone to agree with her, and then gets so angry when you have your own opinion about it. I have learned to just look at her and remain calm. So I know that I can do it but it is so HARD to do htis with my H. My H knows just what buttons to push to set it off.
Right now things have been pretty quiet around here. My H is off in Georgia right now and I am home to run the house and family. When he is gone things are always pretty queit but when he returnns I know that it won't be for long. I keep trying to tell myself that 'you know this is what usually happens so don't let it happen this time'. Do a 180 and don't let it happen!! Right now it's all I miss you's and I love you's and I can't wait to come home from him. I wish he could keep the same attitude and loving nature when he is home instead of leaving it out there on the road somewhere.
I know that I have so many days to get the house in shape, have everything that he has asked me to do done, and get ready to put out by the time he arrives. This is my life............
Me-31 Him-28 D1-9 D2-6 Married 5-06 Seperated 12-07 He filed 1-08 Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08 Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09 Filed for D 4-28-09 Trying to make a go of it 6-09
