YOu could always let him know that you have a very tight schedule as it is. I know you probably won't say this but you could let him know that since this is all his doing, he is the only one that should be inconvienced.
I haven't been to ex's rental and have no desire to. He tries to tell me how much better than our/my house is but the kids say everything is old there and it isn't nice at all. I make him do all the coming and going since none of us wanted this situation. But I know you are a lot nicer than me.
Was today your first day on the job? How did it go? I hope you enjoyed it!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory