I think you are doing well. I hope you aren't talking to brother-in-law anymore. In-laws are more trouble than they are worth when it comes to this. I wager that your wife is too much in la la land to care much about your sons. Doesn't mean she wouldn't eventually care if she came back around. I wouldn't mind putting a fist in your neighbor's "stink eye".
Yeah I've decided to cut that out. No longer constructive. He isn't being very open or forthcoming about what he's learning in any event, seems more interested in fishing for information on me.
WAW seems to be intent on destroying whatever relationship existed with me and her family. I was over there every weekend last year, calling m.i.l. every day after f.i.l. passed away, and basically being the model s.i.l. helping with everything they needed - W hates that and is doing her best to destroy that relationship. She said earlier in our S that she wanted me to leave her family alone.
Neighbor's father waved at me a few minutes ago actually. I waved back... seriously - he allows the b.s. to go on under his roof. Not sure why he wants to be neighborly now.
I guess they are all surprised I went to the lengths I did to catch W. Last time I spoke to her about A, she denied it up and down and I just left it. Nothing I can do really, and ultimately it will come out through this legal process.
I'm working on a PMA, and looking to the future. I'll continue updating, and appreciate any input anyone has.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
