Thanks Kat. I know you care. I'm very blessed with people who care about my sitch. You didn't offend me.

To answer your question, no, she has never bought me anything for our anniversary. In the past it was just a card.

I understand everyone thinks I'm rewarding her behavior. There is a method to my madness. If I get to a point where I go dark on her, isn't it good to have a lot of good memories built up that she'll miss?


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.