Hmmmm... Yes, I have retreated a bit from talking because I've been so consumed with reading and thinking through revelations and issues within myself this past week. And, I've been relatively happy with the change that I've seen so far. But, you make a very good point (not talking=divorce).
I haven't pushed sex therapy or any therapy for that matter because our money situation is really tight. We simply don't have the money. I have a list of sex therapists prepared, though. Ugh. Is there any other way to explore this together? There is not one other thing we can give up now. We've cut out all unnecessary expenses so that I can be home with the baby.
Maybe I should just talk to him about sex therapy and see how he responds.