I agree. Did she never buy an anniversary present before or even acknowledge the occasion? sorry I think you are rewarding her behavior. Keep calling her on stuff and maybe she will start to get it.
I still don't agree with the trip but you are living with her, glad I am not. I care about you enough to give you a 2x4 now and then but it has never been my intent to offend you, sorry if I did.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory