YOu deserve more than a "Do you want to go out for dinner and I'll buy because I didn't get you anything?" Plus, no comment about what you got her. THat sucks. You don't see it that way, but I do. But.....if this is more than usual, it could be a baby step. We shall see........ Call her on the fact that she didn't say anything about your gift if she doesn't say anything.

Hang in there.