T2, I posted this on tal's thread, but thought I should put it here... wanted some of your advice.
Quote: T2, What do you mean not coddling H while they are with OW? I don't feel I can issue an ultimatum... I feel like he will go with her, and I DO feel it will fall apart eventually. He is out of the house, and I don't call him, etc. I certainly don't make things good for him, but I am kind and loving to him and always look good when I see him. But he knows I am here and I assume he thinks I am waiting on him, but he continues to have his A, which repulses me.
Let me know what you think.
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