Lucky, trust me I do understand not feeling like you look like you want to look and how it can eat at you.
So you gotta do what you gotta do, right?
And that means either just accept the size you are now and get your sexy on, or lose some weight if that is what will make you feel better/sexier.
I'm so happy you got some passionate kisses and him reassuring you about loving you....aw....makes me smile all big inside!!
As for focusing on your own issues instead of the sex life, well, I think that's where we are all supposed to be. From that place, you can work on yourself. Then after you've done your work, you can lead by example. Then from there, everything kinda clears itself up....really, it does.
