I forgot to mention that I did end up switching a day with her this week, and the kids will be staying with her mother overnight on a Friday. I am standing firm on the other days though. I am working hard on finding a balance. I do not want to do anything out of anger or spite, but I do want a happy life of my own without the manipulation, control, and misery that she feels the need to share.
I feel sorry for her and I continue to pray for her, Afterall she is the one that will have to live with her choices. Anyone who acts this way is truly unhappy with themselves.