I had a great weekend with the kids. Tonight I plan on getting my paperwork around to give to her lawyer. I also plan on making a few calls regarding my mortgage and a few other bills to see if there is anyway to get them lowered.
I am waiting on a call to get the house appraised. I really can't do much until that is out of the way.
I think I found out why my pre-trial date was pushed back, so she wouldn't have to attend. I guess it's basically where we meet with the judge to see where we are as far as our negotiating goes. My lawyer called this morning and said she is not going to attend. (Big shocker, avoid, run, do not deal with anything.) So I am not going either, he said there is no need for me to go now. He also said there will most likely be no need to go to trial either, which I don't want anyway. So it shouldn't be much longer now.
I am waiting for a response from her now. I have no plans of contacting her at all unless I absolutely have to. Life is much more enjoyable without all the insanity.
I'm sure there will be more drama, she isn't pleased unless she is sharing her misery.I am going to just keep my focus on me and my children. We will be just fine.
I plan on leaving the door open just a crack. I can't say for how long, I am closer. To what? I don't know, but I know it's better.
