Hi, dont think I have ever replied to you, though I have read much of your good advise.
Just going back a couple of your posts to
Quote: As you've all heard me complain....I see my Hs cell phone as the enemy since that's how he communicated with OWs. He doesn't have a house phone (because he rents a room in someone elses house) and of course he has a work phone.
When I read this, my chin nearly hit the floor, I thought I was the only one who felt this way, I thoufght I was mad to feel this.
I first found out about OW by finding a text message, after that I would constantly, look at H every time he answerd cell phone, or text or anything, the phone became an obssession.
Now I cant stand that phone!!! its like the phone is the OW, its quite bizarre, He never brings the phone when he goes out with me, neither does he bring it to our house, which is strange. Once or twice it has been in the car and when I see it, I feel agitated.
I just dont want that phone around me.
I was just happy to see someone else has this kind of thoughts. Made me feel not so mad lol.
