I just started reading the book, "Getting Back Together." It starts off about how a S can be good, how is gives you time to heal bad feelings and how it should be a time of personal growth. It goes on to tell you how to make the reconcilition last. Sorry, I haven't read that far yet. I got the book from the library. See what you think. It may really help you right now. Good luck! Still hoping and praying to be in your shoes!!!! nik
