I guess I know that others have actually repaired their marriages after being where I am at, but did it seem so impossible to you when your spouses were like this?
I don't want to give up hope but this seems so dismal. Do I just go dark? Act as if? Should I believe none of what I hear?
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I have seen some marriages go up to the brink of divorce and then reconcile. I know a close family member of mine was in the same sitch, with OW and pursuing D, and they reconciled. So I don't think it's hopeless ever, but being realistic is still prob. good. I think going dark and acting as if are good. GALing is more important than ever plus exercise. Work on some 180s. Work and focus on you and not your W. Don't believe what you hear but their actions let you know... ((((vdad)))) Karen
