Thank you for your encouragement. I do enjoy the dates but usually I cannot see a R with the guys I meet. The "no expectations" is a great help.
I received an e-mail from "my sailor" today saying that he got home alright but his teenage son got concussion! So he has to pamper him a bit. I guess I will meet him on the week-end only if he has to look after his son. He likes dancing and we might go somewhere. So at least he is still interested in meeting me which is positive.