Don't reach for the pastries just yet!!! No reason to believe my late night snacking is catching, hon!
Wow! This IS exciting! And scary and wonderful....
Does your H KNOW that as you've had to change to make your life and your M viable again, so, too must he???
I know that when CJ told our C that he wanted to work on our M, I was overjoyed...but cautious. I told them both that I was relieved, but I wouldn't accept an R with CJ "at any cost"...that there were things I wasn't happy about and he would have to change as well.
That's the part we're still working on. That's what's still frustrating to me. T2, I STILL sometimes wonder if this is "good enough" for me! (see my latest post!).
But there really is only one way to find out...DO IT..be patient and gentle with yourselves and each other. Don't expect too much, less opportunity to feel let down.
Don't forget to pay attention to the positives, write them down. Look for overall trends vs daily ups and downs.
