I just wish I could turn back time. Bet everyone does. He is convinced it's not depression, not sure what the counsellor thinks. Don't think I can ask as we're now both seeing him.

It still doesn't make any sense at all to me.

Anyway, I know we will get through this. I just need to be his friend now.

He is never rude to me or snappy. I know if I really went for it he would come home right now and listen to me but thats now the way round this. He has to want to stay and make a go of it.


H 36 2nd marriage
me 32 1st marriage
no kids