You could ask him to do that but he might not say yes and you have to remember that. For MT and I both, seeing them be sad is the hardest part. That and knowing you can't do anything to help them feel better. Just hope and pray for them, for you.
And yes, they will say things that indicate a future or a coupleness and then you wonder even more exactly what is going on in their heads. It shows that they don't really know either. My H wanted a new Christmas tree. One that is easier for all of us to put up. Now he is wanting to fix stuff around the house. I don't know anymore so I just listen to what he says and go about my business for the most part. I could exhaust myself to the point of sleeping for weeks if I tried to make complete sense out of all that he says. LOL
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
