I agree. When I think about what I would type, it's pretty much the same thing. I would love for my H to grow up. I think you are doing the right thing. Answer what only needs to be answered. Do you have a DB coach? I know it's sort of expensive, but I will say, it's been worth every dime for me with Jody. She's awesome. Lots of insight. I bet he does NOT file. Maybe he's done with the other women. I don't think he has a girlfriend. If he does, she's very understanding as he texts you all day. Why do you think there is another woman?