I always have to wonder if what I am doing is the right thing
THIS may be a key component. In two ways, DB'ing wise; is my strategy the right one AND I am starting to think there is more to this love languages stuff. I am also thinking it may be harder to suss than I originally imagined.
Twice recently I've done stuff that to me would be complete after thought stuff. She was so appreciative. Didn't seem like a big deal and if she did it for me I might not have even noticed, or worst yet not said thank you for what she did. SO, maybe, finding what actually flips your wife switch might be harder and more subtle than imagined. In the beginning of the R and before we F'd it all up it seemed much easier but now that we are behing the 8 ball, maybe we need to work harder to find things that will talk to them in a language they are still willing to hear.
If you were so awesome when you first got together, could you not go back and try to do whatever you were doing back then?
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted
