Divorce is Hell.....Custody too

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Thank you for your kind words. I almost at the lowest I can be right now. I don't feel like I can suck it up and accept whatever S12 says just to keep a relationship. I know that is wrong. I have never been one to "fake it". If I am upset I let it show. I just don't feel I am being treated fairly by his father or him. I have done nothing but kiss everyone's ass around here to make this go away and nothing ever comes of it except badness to me. Bad enough his father left me but now I feel like he is leaving me. And all because i make him do chores? His father acts like his best buddy, and since they don't have a house he does very little but take out the trash, I cannot compete with that. I have tried asking nicely to do their chores, I have tried threats of punishment, I even had a therapist do a chore chart and a reward system. NOTHING