I've got another question. I had rehearsal the other night in my H's town (he moved 40 minutes away from our house/town). So I let H know I could drop off D9 in his town so he just had a 5 minute drive and I had a 35 minute drive since I was there. He usually picks them up at our house (2 x a week). He wants to start meeting in the middle now, so I guess 20 minutes per way. I'm thinking with my rehearsal and work schedule and volunteer work and moving poss. that will be almost impossible for me to do, while he just works 40 hours a week. What's your opinion on this? If I didn't have all this going on, then it might be fair, but I'm leaning towards no. Opinions on this??? Oh, H emailed and forgot to drop off the check, so will drop off tomorrow night. Karen