Originally Posted By: dburt
I told her that I was thanking a guy on this site that was telling me to be a man and not a little baby because no one wants to ml to a whinny little baby.


Ouch! [laughing here] I was trying to firm, but not scathing....

Just know that I've been in your shoes, guys. In fact my initial thread here (12/06/07) was about Accepting a Rejection....Gracefully: before I had ever heard of Glover or Dieda, and my wife hadn't yet admitted to me that part of what was missing for her was my lack of 'manning up' in our onw relationship.

I've learned lot since then.

Take care,

-- B.


Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs
S25, D23, S13, S10
20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007