Thanks, Ladies. This is Connecticut, however, where a loaf of bread costs $3.00! She thinks that NOTHING will change.

She continues to throw stuff at me like "if you want me to keep YOUR children in the house, you'll renegotiate" blah, blah, blahhhhhh.

Using the kids as human shield doesn't work with me anymore, plus the fact that I'm not trying to appease her anymore doesn't hurt either. Remember the days when I sent her $10K a month from Iraq????

None of this was my desire. Sorry, divorce changes a lot. I no longer care if she has to sell the house and move into a rented condo. If she thinks I'll live like a pauper, while she continues to be able to buy $400 skis for the kids...guess what?