Still here......

[Belle]

Ok, so I'm not a newcomer, but I haven't been posting in a while....

No real relationship talk with my H for about 7 months, except for one converstaion in which he said he is still confused and if we got back together we would need to go to counseling.

He makes little comments once in a while that refer to us getting back together. "Maybe someday we'll go to FL for the holidays", and asking me if there's a ND college in CA where he wants to move to someday, as I am interested in going to ND school.

So here's my deal. I want to ask him to go to a marriage conference by Dr Les and Leslie Parrott. Has anyone ever heard of them???? It's at my church - which he has never gone to.

Regarding church, he's been pretty adamant about not needing it. But lately, he has made a few comments to indicate he's considering going. He asks me what they talked about, and when I say "You should come sometime" he has said, "Maybe I should."

So, my questions are:

1. Has anyone seen Drs Les and Leslie Parott, and if so, are they any good?

2. Does anyone recommend I go out on a huge limb and ask him to go - this is given the fact that I have no clue what is going on between us and also between him and OW. (See my previous posts below)

What can it hurt??? He can only say no.

I am inching towards the point in this R where I'm ready to work on our M or move forward in my life.

At least I'll have some sort of idea on where his mind is at in this whole situation.

Like I said, I have no clue what is going on. We're friends right now.

Any thoughts would be great.