brandnewday....

You said your H was in MLC for 5 years. You also said it was very hard on you and this I certainly believe. I am living what you did.

Did your H behave like my H is, by not really leaving me 100%?

Did your H test the waters, sort of speak, time and time again?

Can you described his behaviors to us as he went through it?

How did you exactly treat H while he was in MLC?

What was the turning point that made him come home?

What were the indications from H he was getting close to returning?

I know every sitch is different because of circumstances and the people in them, but it would be nice to know how your 5 years played out.

I want help and I want to do it the right way....You see I still believe we have a great chance to R.

Thank you,

Sanderika


ME48/H48MLC
T 33y
M 28y
S16
OW 8/7/05
Bomb 8/16/05
Sep 9/05
H f'd D 10/3/08
D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09
D dismissed 2/5/10
H served me D papers again 9/4/10
D dismissed 9/26/11