You said your H was in MLC for 5 years. You also said it was very hard on you and this I certainly believe. I am living what you did.
Did your H behave like my H is, by not really leaving me 100%?
Did your H test the waters, sort of speak, time and time again?
Can you described his behaviors to us as he went through it?
How did you exactly treat H while he was in MLC?
What was the turning point that made him come home?
What were the indications from H he was getting close to returning?
I know every sitch is different because of circumstances and the people in them, but it would be nice to know how your 5 years played out.
I want help and I want to do it the right way....You see I still believe we have a great chance to R.
Thank you,
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11