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Originally Posted By: whitelight
Yay for the old flame! This is getting exciting!




\:\) Yes it's getting exciting, but the old flame lives a few continents away !! hahahah ! ;\)


Still....Valentine, I'm loving the attention and flattery for now and am trying to be a good mom and person.

Love you all !! xxx


Love Cinders xxx

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Cindy, all I can tell you is that you are on a roll! LOL You got'em all after you! Did you change perfumes or something? LOL

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Hi Cinders,

Your old flame sounds great! How did he get your e-mail address?

It is a shame that he lives on another continent! Long distance relationships are not the easiest, I can tell you. But I can imagine that you feel flattered by his attention. Enjoy it.

Have a lovel week. xxx

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Originally Posted By: Cinderellaman
So this morning I woke up got online and you wouldn't believe it but an old flame logged on and since VERY VERY LONG started chatting online with me, he told me he truly was so in love with me and that it could have been so good ....my goodness, I think it's even obvious ONLINE that my forehead has stamped on it...'READY TO DATE' ! hahahahaha \:\)

Oh well, it's doing me good I suppose, all this flattery. Nice to feel a woman again, nice to get some attention after so long. ;\)

I haven't thought much about H to be honest, I often catch myself no longer thinking of him. I think that's good !!

I'm having a similar experience, Cinders! It's nice to be appreciated again, isn't it? And yes, mine is far away too--which is not a bad thing right now.


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I think it's what works well for me now....not too much pressure, yet nice flattering conversations...at a distance ! ;\)

Take care xxx


Love Cinders xxx

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((((Cinders)))),

OMG....I stopped by and felt like I stumbled onto the set of Desperate Housewives....LOL! I am glad you see this "incident" for what it is....one more trial to further your growth! You sound good!


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Hi FaithfulH !!! I'm sorry, I hope I didn't shock you too much.... it has been life changing for me, I have to say !

I'm enjoying life, and having a good time. In future however I hope dating will be something I can really enjoy.

Who knows, maybe one day, my very far away H may ask me out on a date... hahaha !

Take care sweety and thanks for popping round !


Love Cinders xxx

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Hey Cinders, sounds like you are doing great! Nothing wrong with reconnecting with old friends and getting some attention along the way. Makes you feel good, another bonus!

Enjoy yourself and take it all in!

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Hey Cinders...YOu sound great today! Take care!!


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Hi Cinders,
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Who knows, maybe one day, my very far away H may ask me out on a date... hahaha !
I had to laugh at this!

Have a nice day tomorrow. xxx

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