Hi Hope,

I loved Slumdog and I am planning to see it again. What a great story and a reaffirmation that true love can exist, that there are good people out there, who can be male. I love the scene where he kisses the scar on her face. I cried so hard! What a great scene. I am an optimist, this kind of love does and can exist. We have to keeping hoping and trying.

Last week I had an a DB coach session and an IC session. Both have been great. I know you are missing your H, maybe it's just not time for him to come back yet. My therapists help me see how I contributed to the breakdown of my M in a safe environment, made me really honest with myself, scary thing to do but so good for me. Are you doing the same?


Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'