Girlfriends are the best. They keep my head up and keep me sane in times of chaos and madness. I bounce ideas off them and they are gentle in their reply and they are always on MY side.
Had coffee with some genuinely caring, older girlfriends today. They help me think through my situation and also to sympathize. I wish everyone on this board has friends like these. I feel very blessed. A few years back I was in dire need of some girlfriends because I had none and my prayers were answered in abundance. Now I have these wonderful friends to help me carry my burden and to think clearly again.
Those who are here, don't be afraid to reach out to your friends. You will find out real quick who have your best interest at heart and who doesn't. But for those who are there to support you, you have found a gem. Keep them close and treasure your those friendships.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09