Oh, Alison! I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I know you must be frantic, but don't panic yet-- you don't know how long your D will be over there. Your H's place is going to be awfully crowded, and I doubt OW will be pleased to have another angry teenager underfoot. Wasn't your H all but ignoring your D before she showed up on his doorstep? Do you think she might have engineered the blowup just to get his attention?
Your D may think she hates you at the moment, but she's gotta be furious with her dad for treating her so shabbily, and she can't be fond of OW. Watch and see what happens.
What did your S say when you talked to him? Was he friendly or cold? Do you think your H has been filling his head with sh*t to turn him against you?
