robx,
thank you for sticking with me on this. It might not seem so, but I am better than I would be. I think my problem is I never had to grow up my whole life. Before my wife I let my mom move in with me and I let her do to much for me and when I met my wife I was the strong one and I slowly let my wife take over and do too much. Now I have to grow up and I dont like it. I am so pissed off at myself cause I saw this coming for a while. cant believe I am this age and still need to grow up.

So your saying she is dark and if I go dark to this will work? It is hard for me cause it seems like it is what she wants. Wants to see the OM and have no confrontation.

How do I go dark and still take care of business matters?

Last edited by noedphi; 03/02/09 04:51 AM.
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