Well, me and my W did have that talk, but it didn't get very far. As far as privacy, she asked if I would find a place to stay one night about every other weekend so she could have a quiet night at home with our Ds and/or have some friends over. She said she would reciprocate for for me. She would not feel comfortable knowing I was downstairs even if I stayed down here and kept a low profile. I told her I couldn't think of a situation where I would invite any friends over to have a get together, not to mention asking her to leave for the night. We have decided to go Florida together with our Ds to my niece's graduation. It's not for 2 months, so I guess we'll still be together in some way. My SIL there told me if she hadn't moved down there, she is sure she and my W would be best friends, even if we were to D. Our Ds have a lot of resentment towards my W. She asked my D13 to write a diary and then she read it and was very upset at what she read. She wanted me to read it, which I didn't want to do, but since she already had, I figured I was going to find out 1 way or the other.My D was/is upset that my W read it and now she doesn't trust her mother. That's enough for now.
