Plus she could be getting angry over the money in that jar to throw attention away from her being out all night.
The real way to have handled that money jar argument was to be silent, give her the silent treatment. Don't respond calmly, don't do anything.
Don't reward her $hitty behavior & attitude with your attention, when you reward spoiled bratty behavior with your attention, it tells them to continue acting that way because you will continue giving her attention - stop that.
