She didn't care about your feelings, she went out all night and stayed out the whole night, didn't come home at all.
Seriously, I hate to say it but going out all night and staying out all night, she may have been with the other man you were mentioning about.
Go back & read your posts, do you realize the amount of emotional investment you have in this relationship and she couldn't care less. When you do realize this and start to detach.
Who knows what the correct response would have been to that. When I wasn't the way I am now, I would have been extremely jealous & pissed mad, probably would have thrown her belongings into the front yard and told her to move out.
You are too attached, you don't seem able to detach, reading your posts it seems like that won't happen for quite some time which is unfortunate, that is alot of pain to shoulder during this process.
How has the weekend gone thus far, did you guys argue over that money in the jar? How much are we talking about anyways that she got all angry over it?