I will contact the lender tomorrow. It won't hurt to see what they say I guess. And if it could be worked out I would feel like I dodged at least one bullet! But if not, I know I'll be ok. If H doesn't pay the child support/alimony (it's been ordered by the judge) what do I do about that? I'm either going to have to pay the mortgage co. a sizeable amount or a first/last month and moving truck so I'm going to really need it!
Btw, D9 told me H's apt. is full of furniture now: one of his friends gave him an apartment full. I'm thinking OW most likely.
